Summer Battery Recharge
The past six months has been ridiculously busy. Starting in November when my Mom got sick and died so suddenly I feel like my world has been just on a constant go. Probably to fend off all the emotions I was feeling. I am no doubt a person who just charges forward no matter what the situation. Great for leadership skills but not always good for mental health.
I made a decision to go out to the beach and recharge my batteries. I am on phone calls, I am on skype but I am also walking to the beach, exercising daily, reading books and I plan on hitting up the kitchen in a big way. Yesterday I took two trips to the beach and my best pal out here, Ollie, couldn't have been happier to make the journey with me.
As always, trying to figure out the life balance isn't the easiest. Can I be selfish right now and just have my time at the beach while figuring out what September will look like and what next year will bring. I have decided the answer to that is absolutely yes. My kids are older. Jessica is in Cape Town for the semester which is so awesome. Emily start college in the fall and is returning from Europe in a week. Josh is working and coming back and forth from the city. Fred plans on spending as much time as possible out here too. It works.
I was speaking to someone on the phone this week about the path her life has taken. Her path and decisions in many ways are very similar to mine. We both made decisions to be home because we thought it was the right thing to do. I am glad I did it and I am never one to look back and say I wish I could have because I have to believe that I made the decisions I made at that time because it made sense then. I have to trust myself.
Yet, now as I am looking forward about what I want the next five/ten years to look like, I am taking time to think about my Mom leaving us too soon, my relationships with my kids, my friendships that I want to nurture more, the things that I need to make me happy and attempting to just recharge. Not so easy but I am starting to enjoy the process.