I spent a lot of time this summer thinking about survival. What we do to survive and how survival shapes us. I find myself reflecting more about this topic. Survival is about your personal nurture more than nature.
After reading the book We Were the Lucky Ones, a true story about the survival of a Polish family in WWII. It is amazing what this family did to survive. Sometimes it was just fate and other times pure chutzpah. There is no doubt that what each of them lived through changed who they were for ever. I wonder if I would have survived that horrific time in history.
The book 4 3 2 1 forces the reader to think about survival. Each of those 4 lives, with the same exact character, shaped his outcome but not who he was at his core. I wrote about this book after reading it.
Then I read something like Evicted and wonder how those children living in these circumstances will be shaped by those survival experiences. Will they rise to the occasion to always have a roof over their head or will they just fall into the same endless cycle of despair that their parents, unfortunately, provided for them?
Everyone has a story about growing up. Your parents are your first role models. You don’t know anything else. Sometimes you revere them and other times as you get older you question their decisions. Regardless, who we are individually at the core doesn’t change, it just gets molded by our experiences.